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Friday, October 17, 2014

STORIES OF BLESSING #3

THE THANKSGIVING CHALLENGE: 
PLEASE JOIN US IN THIS CHALLENGE

Written 2014-10-17 10:26:56, Friday

I want to issue you a challenge. Let's call it THE THANKSGIVING CHALLENGE. 

What is this challenge? You might wonder. It's what you might think from the name of the challenge and from the name and purpose of this Stories of Blessing blog (and soon to be blog book). 

My calculations say Thanksgiving is in 40 days. So... 

Here's the Thanksgiving Challenge: See how many blessings you can count, and stories of blessing, you can write between now and Thanksgiving. Make it a minimum of three per day. 

40 days x 3 blessings minimum per day = 120 total minimum blessings counted

I think this would be quite amazing, don't you?

What about asking it of everyone who you are close to and share it during Thanksgiving or the week after Thanksgiving with one another? 

What about sharing at least one per day on this blog so this blog can be full of that many more blessings we can all share in and enjoy? 

Are you up for it? Want to take this Thanksgiving Challenge?

If so, would you please attach a comment at the end of any blog post and let us know. And, we can also have a discussion, if you want, about blessings and counting our blessings. This blog is meant to be a community as well, to encourage, inspire, and build up one another. 

Have a blessed day!

-- By Stacy Duplease of Virginia

#ThanksgivingChallenge #GratitudeChallenge #BlessingsChallenge #StoriesOfBlessingChallenge #CountYourBlessings 

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BOOK PUBLISHING PLAN FOR THESE BLOG POSTS AND STORIES OF BLESSING

Every 400 pages of blog post material, I will turn these stories into a book. (I will publish these blog posts, in other words.)

My guess is every two and a half months or so at this point is how often the blog posts will be turned into a book. The material will be of any story of blessing anyone shares on the blog, plus the material I've written.  

In time, I hope that themes will start to develop, so I can also turn these blog post stories of blessing into theme books (for example: Prayer, Faith,  Life's Storms, etc.).

I will also do a "Best Stories of the Year" for 400 pages of the blog posts that got the most hits (people looking at it). 

For now, I will make the title a fancy one (sarcasm), which all subsequent books will follow:


Working Title:

Stories of Blessing #1
(A Collection for Encouragement and Inspiration)


Of course, they can be read in any order. You won't need to start with book 1. 

I will also do a paperback version as well as a e-book version of each book. 

While I am editing the material, before I publish the books, I will have a free edition you can find online. Details will come soon.

So, stay tuned.

#Books #BookSeries #Publishing #PublishingPlan #Series #StoriesOfBlessing #StoriesOfBlessing#1

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THE BLESSING OF A OFFICEMATES

Written 2014-10-16 13:00:34, Thursday

The writing life can be a lonely one. It means working alone for hours on end, day in and day out. 

I have had a faithful and loyal companion, who has been in my office or study, with me day in and day out since I became a full-time writer (June 2009) (a blessing). And, even before that. It's my elderly Beagle, Zack. He turns 15 in January 2015 (another blessing). 

He is the most patient companion. I cannot tell you how many stories I've read to him--and he's listened to all of them. Or, at least I assume through the snores he heard it and was really enthralled and not bored out of his mind. He's always there. 

My other cat, Sinan the Maine Coon and orange fluffball, has not been nearly as faithful or as patient--as far as my writing. He doesn't hang out with me too often as I write. He does from time to time, but not like Zack. Zack is with me ten hours a day or more as I peck at the keyboard. 

I also have Shelly aquatic turtle in my study. She can be the most demanding for attention at times. Turtles are so social! She knows to splash if she wants my attention. She will splash until she gets it. I hear it, look up, and see water splashing OVER the sides of the tank. And, there's about fourteen inches of tank above the water. so, if the splashing goes over the sides, that should tell you how crazy she is when she wants affection. 

Now that Kara is my study, I don't just have one officemate, I have three. 

Now that I can keep the door open and Zack can come and go if he desires--and he usually does and follows me, Kara just stays on my desk. She's never ventured out of the study except once--and that was yesterday. Yesterday and today have been the first time I can keep the study door open, so I've been able to work in my study all day long--without having to divide my time between Zack and Sinan in the family room and Kara in the study. (A blessing.) 

I am so thankful for my three new office companions. (Even though one, Kara girl, is rearranging my desk as we speak because she's pushing on stuff with her four paws. Evidently the stuff got in her way. Poor thing. Now, she's rubbing her face and scent marking my tablet and its stand--getting fur all over my keyboard. Precious.) 

Animals are proof fancy words aren't needed most of the time. In fact, any kind of words aren't even needed. Rather, presence is so meaningful. 

When my husband and I make our Historic Jamestowne run every month or more, we often don't say much. We don't need to. Just being together is the biggest blessing. 

And, how many times have you gone through a hard time and someone, well-meaning, will say something stupid and it can be hurtful, infuriating, or disrespectful? If they would just say, "I have no idea what to say. But, I'm here. If you need anything, just ask." That would be far more beneficial. 

Critters show this firsthand how helpful a mostly silent presence is--and how healing. 

My officemates and companions do mean for writer's block at times, when I can't get something done because they want affection, need something, or because they are being so cute I have to stop what I'm doing and take a few photos. 

Thank God for office mates and critter companions--and for those we can be quiet with--and just hang and enjoy one another's presence. Life would sure be ugly and dull if not for them. 

-- By Stacy Duplease of Virginia

#Animals #Cats #Companions #Critters #Dogs #StoriesOfBlessing #Turtles

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BLESSINGS LIST BY ELLEN OF DENVER

Taking a much needed shower thanking the good Lord that I have hot water and getting out of shower, Molly (my cat) is sitting on floor making sure that I was OK, then realizing I was out. 


When we don't have what is needed and making do with what we have.


While applying for a job and getting one response after responding to many.



Afternoon Blessings:


Trying to take a nap and my Molly lays down next to me on sofa.  It doesn't last long but it was those few moments that I cherish.


Looking around my home and thanking mom for giving me this roof over head so I need not worry about where I'd live.


Looking out window with sunshine pouring in.  What a beautiful afternoon.


Waiting until 4:15 to get mail. Not only mine, but my dear neighbor C's, whom I help because she is unable to do.  Bringing her, her mail loving her beautiful smile and just hearing her say, thank you.


-- By Ellen of Denver


#Cats #Home #Job #Mothers #StoriesOfBlessing

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THE BLESSING OF COUNTING MY BLESSINGS

Written 2014-10-16 14:10:35, Thursday and 2014-10-17 07:54:24, Friday

A year ago, when God closed the door on something in B's and my life, I started to learn the value of counting my blessings. This is even more true regarding the times I don't feel like it. Counting My blessings gets the focus off of me, and my challenges or storms, and redirects my thoughts to the reality of the situation. The reality is, though this time might be rocky for whatever reason, life overall, when I look past the immediate bumps, is full of blessing. 

Counting my blessings has changed me and my life. I have not had the same perspective on anything since I started this practice. How could I?

I've also learned it's okay to be a thief. If I see the blessings in someone else's life, I count it as a blessing, for I was able to see the blessing. A blessing doesn't have to directly impact me. A blessing is a blessing. And, a blessing is special favor we don't deserve, but we are given it anyway.

I've also learned how in every moment, there are several blessings, no matter the moment. All we need to do is look for them. 

Another lesson about blessings I've learned is to count my blessings in each moment, but also in hindsight for the same moment. It amazes me how later I find even more blessings in that moment.

A blessing is anything or anyone we can be grateful and thankful for in every moment. 

Life has storms and challenges. Sure. But, within those, blessings abound. All we need to do is open our eyes, look for them, and count them.

Life is full of blessings.

-- By Stacy Duplease of Virginia

#Blessings #Gratitude #Perspective #StoriesOfBlessing #Thanksgiving

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TURNING NOT-FEELING-IT TO BLESSINGS COUNTED

Written 2014-10-17 09:26:51, Friday

I got another poor night's sleep last night, the forth or fifth in a row, so I am tired, cranky, and have quite the tired headache. Also, I've been dealing with back pain and fighting a cold for days now as well. So, I will not lie. I do not feel like counting my blessings, thank you very much. 

As a matter of fact, when I see the blog title of, Stories of Blessing, I want to stick my tongue out. I'm just not feeling it.

But, this is where I'm glad for maturity and wisdom. Just like on the days I don't want to work out, I know when I do, it's usually the best workout I have in a long time. It's the same way with counting my blessings. Experience has proven this true more times than I can think. I know today of all days, since I'm just not feeling it, it's even more imperative for me to do. 

I might not write 1,000 word stories of my blessings, or I just might when I get started, but I will still see how many blessings in my life I can indeed count. 

As a matter of fact, if I make a list of every blessing I can think of, it will give me an outline of bullet points I can expand into a longer story of blessing. So, this is how I will start today.

It's a blessing to be older, wiser, and have some experience under my belt. Today, of all days, I just want to do pretty much anything else than count my blessings or workout, but today, I will do both. Today will be one gigantic dynamic of blessing then. I just need to do it and wait and see.

Counting my blessings is really the wisest thing for me to do when I feel so yucky and crabby. Hence, I shall.

-- By Stacy Duplease of Virginia

#Blessings #CountingMyBlessings #Crabbiness #Crankiness #StoriesOfBlessing

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Counting My Blessings By Ellen of Denver

Due to lack of sleep had worse pain shooting down my shoulder and arm,  don't know why so on this Friday I ask...


We take too much for granted,  but they are blessings.


Such as:  morning coffee savoring every sip.  Breakfast,  whatever we eat it feels so good to have a full tummy. Going to work,  we have wheels to get us where we need to go.  Leave earlier so we don't need to rush.


I say these things because it's those little things that are my blessings.


Walking down hall to kitchen turning on coffee maker.


Molly, my kitty, so excited the alarm going off and following me everywhere as she wants love. I give her love and feeling her contentment I smile with such fulfillment on what just took place. Blessing indeed!


Getting ready for my job interview and knowing there's nothing more I can do to prepare.  I give it to God.  He knows what's best for me.


I feel so blessed!


-- By Ellen of Denver


#Animals #Blessings Counted # Breakfast #Cat #Coffee #Critters #Food #Gratitude #Pets #StoriesOfBlessing #Thanksgiving #Work


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PERSONAL BLESSINGS COUNTED LIST ON OCTOBER 17, 2014

Written 2014-10-17 10:51:37, Friday

This is also my start of the Thanksgiving Challenge. 

Thank God it's Friday.

I'm excited for this Thanksgiving Challenge. I want to see how many blessings I can count each day between now and then. Even if it's just a bullet list, like this one. It's from the bullet lists that I will expand each into a Story of Blessing. This will give me a good outline to work from and this is rather exciting to think. I will try to think of blessings from my past, present, and future to count each day. (What a blessing this will be.)

Getting greeted by my critters first thing in the morning. 

The first sip of coffee each morning.

How much I've grown over the past year to even know to be even more conscious about counting my blessings when I don't feel like it.

The decision B and I made on Monday. It was not one we ever expected we would make. 

The sound of the water filter of Shelly aquatic turtle's tank. It's so relaxing. And, watching her swim is so serene. (Hah! Two blessings in one! Score!)

Watching Kara sleep on my desk in front of me. The beauty of God's creation just staggers me. 

The fresh air coming in the window to my left. It's slightly crisp, smells good, and feels good as it hits my left side. 

Sinan just got up in said window to smell. He's such a gorgeous cat. 

Last night, B and I spun out mattress and, thankfully, I think I've discovered the source of my back pain. I feel a great deal better today. Whew. (Two blessings in one again.)

I had a headache earlier from a lack of sleep and took some children's chewable aspirin. I also took a shower. One or both relieved the headache, thankfully. 

The sun is out in full force and is stunning. 

It's not too warm of a day.

I hear a helicopter flying. It's of the military variety. What a blessing to hear. The sound of freedom is a major blessing--as well as those in the military and the ones in the helicopter. I am grateful for what they do--and have done. 

Again, we have not heard of a new case of Ebola diagnosed here in the USA. This is most certainly a blessing. 

Adding chocolate syrup to coffee to give it an extra kick (for me, the sugar free variety). 

It's Fall. This is by far my most favorite season.

Sinan has been in the study with Kara on my desk, for over five minutes, and neither cat has hissed. This is a blessing. 

The weekend starts tomorrow.

A nice shampoo and conditioner to make my hair soft and silky. Healthy. Manageable. 

The sound of a purring cat. 

A door to shut when one cat gets too upset. (I think that's the best word to use here.)

Learning from how my dog, cats, and turtles look at me--that's how I would look at the Lord. 

Penzu--for keeping all of my blessings permanently. It's my online journaling and is where I save everything that has meaning or value in my life. It's truly God-sent and is a major, major, blessing. (I also like how if I ever chose to go back to the free version, it would still have all of my journaling. It would also keep all of my tabs.)

I'm excited to see what happens in the next year with B and me. We know that B will retire from his first job of almost three decades. Then, he will start phase 2 in our lives--where he has another job. Doing the same thing. Just in another capacity. Also, I will then start to volunteer at the hospice and nursing home and help collect the Stories of Blessing in the lives of those people. I will listen to their stories and write them down for them and their family and friends. Focusing on times of blessing will help their quality of life. Also, what a huge honor it would be to hear their stories. For those who want their legacy of blessing shared, I will add them to this blog, so we can learn from their wisdom. 

What I just shared will be a new beginning. It will be a time of transformation and transion, but quite the blessing. 

B and I will move to another city or state to do so and we are excited to see where we end up--it will be where the job takes us. 

B and I will buy our first house together. Oh, how exciting! 

The wag of a dog's tail.

The irregular beat of a cat's tail. 

Freedom. What a major blessing. 

The United States of America is another blessing.

Elections, just around the corner, are a blessing. 

My mom. 

My dad.

My Granny.

My aunts, uncles, and cousins. 

My friends.

My faith. 

My salvation. 

Being able to count my blessings.

Email.

Leftover roasted chicken.


A good book.

I could go on. And will later. 

#Blessings #BlessingsChallenge #BlessingsCounted #CountingOfBlessings #GratitudeChallenge #Healing #ThanksgivingChallenge

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GIVE THANKS IN EVERYTHING AND FOR EVERYTHING: A BIBLICAL THANKSGIVING CHALLENGE

Written 2014-10-17 11:43:22, Friday

The Bible says in 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18 and in Philippians 4:4-7, we learn that we are to give thanks for everything, in everything, and at all times, every single day and night. This is the original Thanksgiving Challenge. 

The question is: Do we do this? 

If we do not give thanks day and night, for and in all things, we can learn to do so. This blog will help with that and doing the Thanksgiving Challenge will help. In fact, taking the Thanksgiving Challenge for every day for the rest of your life will bring these verses to fulfillment in your life.

Just a thought and a reminder. 

The more we count our blessings, the more thankful we will be, and the more blessings we will find to be thankful for. What a blessed cycle. 

#Bible #Blessings #BiblicalBlessings #ChristianBlessings #Gratitude #Thanks #Thanksgiving #ThanksgivingChallenge

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*** Updated last on Oct. 17, 2014 at 12:03 p.m. ***

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

NEW DAY 2: 365-DAYS AND THE HOME CHRONICLES

DAY 2: INTRODUCTION TO JOURNALING



NEVER JOURNALED BEFORE?
If you are a novice at this thing called journalkeeping, welcome! You are in for quite the adventure. (That, I guarantee.) So, how do you start? Buying this book is the first step in the process. Next, start to fill out this book.

I recommend starting with small chunks. I also suggest starting with DAILY journaling, and at least Monday through Friday, but only with the one-sentence summary.

Do that for a week. Then, add one sentence in the next section. Do that for a week or two. Then, add another sentence.

Keep adding a sentence every week and before you know it, you're going to find this book is not enough for you. So, what then? Buy a blank book or start journaling on your computer. Add that to the mix.

You might even want to consider buying the other books in this series.

They are:
~ 1-YEAR REMEMBERING YOUR PRESENT JOURNAL
~ 5-YEAR REMEMBERING YOUR PRESENT JOURNAL
~ 10-YEAR REMEMBERING YOUR PRESENT JOURNAL
~ ETC. ETC. ETC. JOURNALING PROMPTS

Keep working at your own pace. Do whatever works for you. If it stops working for you, change it up. Just  whatever you do, don't stop. There will be good days and bad days. Good weeks and bad weeks. Good months and bad months--just like life. However, I guarantee your life will have a far better quality if you keep journaling.

If you are curious as to what a veteran journalkeeper of about 30 years does on a daily basis, I would say it depends. There are times it is only a sentence a day I write. I try to do that as a minimum  Those are few and far between. On average, I write 30 minutes a day. There are times  though, I write two to three hours a day. There is one fast rule that I have learned, the more I journal, the better my life is. The two go hand-in-hand.

If you have never journaled before, make sure to read the following sections You will glean new information and suggestions from them, I'm sure.

IF YOU HAVE JOURNALED BEFORE
If you have journaled before, and it is a daily habit for you, then still make sure to read the previous section. You might pick up on suggestions you haven't used before--or it has been a while since you have.

If you have journaled before, I recommend journaling more and going deeper. I also recommend making sure that you are including the memories you make today, but the memories of your past. Make sure to claim and reclaim all of them. Even if you jot down a quick sentence to jog the memory, at least get that in your journal. You can expand upon it later.

Also, check out the other books in this series (see the previous section). I recommend doing all four, plus having your own journal on the side for additional journaling.

EVERY WEEK
I recommend every week, if not every day, I recommend typing up all of the handwritten journaling you do. This is critical.

NEVER, EVER, EVER
Never--ever--ever throw a journal away. Never. If you do, you throw away a part of your life  If you throw away a part of your life, then that means you never fully dealt with it. It is important to deal with it--or it WILL deal with you.

Keep all of your journals--no matter how ugly.
Why?

It forces you to deal with your stuff. And, you can process through that period of time, learn from it, and become a better person for it.
Why else keep your journals? You get to see from where you've come. You get to see where you've grown, where you get stuck, the mistakes you repeat, the joys, the memories you've experienced, and so on. What treasure. I am far more proud of getting through the tough times in my life than the good. I am human. I make mistakes. I make my fair share of them, but, oh, the growth that comes from them! That is something to cherish. those are special, sacred times.

So, never, ever, ever throw away a journal. Never--ever-ever.

MAKE YOUR JOURNALS PERMANENT
It is critically important to make your journals PERMANENT--where they will not ever get lost or destroyed. It hurts to lose them. Trust me.
Let me tell you a story to illustrate this importance.

A couple of years ago or so, I almost had a tornado strike my house. That alone got my attention with my well over 80 handwritten journals. (Yikes!) But, my story has just begun. A couple of weeks later, my husband and I moved and the movers lost a quarter of them. (I still do not have them, by the way. They are lost, or stolen, depending on how I look at it.) Then, two weeks later, there was an earthquake. Then, a week later, there was Hurricane Irene--where we were under mandatory evacuation orders.

(Truth is often stranger than fiction. I'm not making this up.)
So, let me tell you the importance of making your journals permanent.
I cannot tell you the loss you feel when you lose your journals. For me, it's like I lost part of my life. A quarter of it, as a matter of fact. It hurt then--and it still hurts just as fiercely when I think about it.

And, by the way, I do not mean just keeping them on your hard-drive and external hard-drive. Think of fire.

I am talking about keeping them on the internet -on the cloud--so you never have to worry about losing them again--or your photos for that matter.

I went through Hurricane Sandy a couple of weeks ago. Do I need to tell you the peace I had--because my journals and photos were safe?
So, there you have it. Make your journals permanent. 

FINALLY
Take a look on my blog for more information at: 

Stacy Duplease
Journalkeeper & Author
The Remembering Your Present Journal Keeping Series
dba Remembering Your Present, LLC & Storykeeper 2121

NOTE ON THE 365-DAYS AND THE HOME CHRONICLES



As I write this 365-Day series, I will rearrange the order of the days from time to time. Therefore, you might see multiple Day 2's for example. However, in the final product, there will not be more than 1 day 2.

In time, I will download this to my Smashwords store listed below so you can see the blog posts in the true order. 

I hope this helps to clear things up and will try to get you the copy to download between now and Friday. 

Have a blessed day and may your day be a memorable one. 

Happy journaling,

Stacy Duplease
Journalkeeper & Author
The Remembering Your Present Journal Keeping Series
dba Remembering Your Present, LLC & Storykeeper 2121

DAY 3: 365-DAYS AND THE HOME CHRONICLES

DAY 3: HOW CAN I NOT KNOW MY HOME?



Just the question disturbs me. Is something wrong with me?

While I know part of the answer, it still does not bring me comfort. I want to know the total, complete, deep answer—not one that merely skims the surface.

I will unveil this answer in the days and weeks to come. However, I will start today.

WHAT IS HOME, A BEGINNING DEFINITION:
THOUGHTS ON HOME

I firmly believe where I live is home. Period. End of story.

But, is there more to home than walls, roof, furniture, and stuff? 

I also believe I can make anywhere home. Home is a choice in this regard and is what I choose to make of it. After all, home is wherever my husband and me are at the time (plus critters, of course).

I also believe that home is my country, the United States of America.

Home is also a state and a city. It can include the house you live in, but in some circumstances, it does not. My life is one of those, by the way. I have a house that I call home, but know that it is temporary. Therefore, city and state do not fully stand out as home to me. We can leave at any time in 2-3 years from the time we set up our home. We've been here in Virginia since July 2011.)

I also think home is where you live when you retire and where you plan to live out your years.

But, there is another home that goes much deeper than any building, person, critter, city, state, or nation. But, it includes them as well. It is where you want to live. It is your dream home in your dream location with the version of happily-ever-after you choose. It holds your stuff, your mind, and your heart. It is where and when you are most content. This is the all-encompassing, heaven-on-earth home. Or is it?

Home is where I can really, fully be me. It is where I can live the freest and constantly gain inspiration. Home is where I can dream dreams and make them come true. It is a safe haven and a place of wonder.

It is also where I can let go and have peace. Home is where I can be content at all times. It is a place for making memories and enjoying life. Home is simple and keeps complications at the door. It is where my heart resides and is where my mind can roam. Home is where my husband and I live and is where we can be. Home is not where you waste your life, but is where you truly live it. Home was heaven on earth. Or at least that was what is should represent.

I sure do not have such a place in my life yet--a place to reach that state of being and creativity, of contentment, of proper perspective and insight, or of belonging... except at Historic Jamestown in Virginia. How could Jamestown, of all places, be home? That didn't /doesn't make sense to me and it still doesn't make complete sense. But, I am starting to grasp it.

JOURNALING EXERCISE
Grab your journal and your favorite beverage of choice and journal your responses to each of the following:
~ Journal about whatever came to mind while reading today's reading. 
~ When you think of "home," what do you think of? Write your answer for at least 10 minutes. If you get stuck, ask yourself the original question again and write anything that comes to mind. (NOTE: This is called a SOC Journaling or a Stream of Consciousness Journaling.). 
~ How would you define home? Be specific and go into great detail. 
~ Do you have one or many homes? What are they? Describe in great detail adn sue the 6 senses.
~ Describe your dream home. Is it feasible? Will you ever be able to have it--or are you living in it now? 
~ Where is it that you want to retire? Why? Go into great detail.

(Written 27-28 November 2012.)

Stacy Duplease
Journalkeeper & Author
The Remembering Your Present Journal Keeping Series
dba Remembering Your Present, LLC & Storykeeper 2121